CONFIDENCE MATTERS AND CONFIDENCE SPEAKS WITH YOUR CRITICS
Many times when you grow, you see a paradigm change in behavior of people. This is not knew. Critics and Criticism has to be there. History, Present and even Future will justify the statement. Every tom is there with his own allegation. But you have to move ahead, if the tom seems to be more than interesting critic, try to make him a friend and move ahead. Don’t try and you yourself start doing what others are doing. Always have one thrusts in life – Believe in your hard work and understand what you earn by your hard work only remains with you.
YOU ARE THE CREATOR OF YOUR DESTINY – SWAMI VIVEKANANDA
Determination, Dedication and Commitment to your principles and ethics will help you sustain your critics. Worst come worst situation nothing works be spiritual and believe in god. When i was writing the first para above, in my first draft i did wrote “what people will think” . Solution to critics lies in this simple solution, remove that line from you mind. What people will think is in their house and you have to build your own house. Understand the difference. If yes, did you got it that means keep moving at your speed. No rush, Be content.
And as an old saying goes on problems and obstacles are meant only to be encountered by good people. So be ready if you honestly fit into it. Don’t take criticism or critics in a negative way. Consider them your friends and take things in a right spirit. Believe in your abilities. Don’t do anything which is above your abilities. Learn it, practice it and put into practice. Having fear, and all sorts of elements of fear in your heart will put you into a big dilemma in life. Become a useful asset. Don’t run from your life. Live the challenges. Remember Good work and Success is always opposed by the best in their own way.
NEVER ARGUE WITH STUPID PEOPLE, THEY WILL DRAG YOU DOWN TO THEIR LEVEL AND THEN BEAT YOU WITH EXPERIENCE – MARK TWAIN
Be Honest, Spiritual and Respectful. Last one respectful and where you stand as a human being decides your future. Always remember, if you cannot overcome a Mountain but you can always tunnel through that Mountain. At the end every one is a Human Being. Every person has a trilionaire heart. It just how you deal with the situation. Are you arrogant. If yes, sometimes it is understood that you do go through stress and vomit something rubbish but every time then that is senseless. Have a benchmark line, and always remain on that line and that line should be of Respect, Regards and Love. Be Amiable and Affable. Digging 10 oil wells is as equal to digging 1 love well.
NO ONE RISES SUDDENLY IN THE WORLD, NOT EVEN THE SUN
Solution to every problem is love. At the end always remember if something wins over “Mr Critics” then that is “Mr Love”.